When spamming, flaming trolls crucify you on message boards and your mother calls worried and your ex starts telling really bad and untrue stories about you on Facebook and your whole world collapses just because you thought you were doing what you were supposed to do.
Here are some of the expectations we have of young women:
Be clever. Be smart. Be sexy and coy. Make good choices in front of people and make sure nobody knows about your bad ones. Straighten your hair. Wear shorts with no inseam. Shave, everywhere. Be clean and courteous and kind. Fix your makeup. If it feels good, go along with it tacitly. If it doesn’t feel good, try to use your best judgement and then go along with it tacitly. Lick your lips. If you get drunk try not to get sloppy, or at least make sure there’s no…
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